Spread too thin…

Well, I have been trying to make a post a bit more often but like the title says I’ve spread myself I bit thin…but, in a good way.

I have been hitting the gym consistently, today I did chest, tri’s, and calves. Maybe ill post one of my workout routine’s soon. However, one of the things about Cystic Fibrosis is you have to pace yourself or you’ll burn out quickly. So, basically every other day I have to “rest,” which in CF terms means: hang out around the house, don’t do anything too active, eat and drink a lot…and sleep as much as possible to allow the body to recover.

I’m not gonna lie I can deal with not being able to breathe well, put on weight easily, or even taking 100 pills a day. What I absolutely hate is “resting!”

There are only so many thing you can do before you start to go a little stir crazy…and it gets difficult. So, I’ve been taking on a few new projects, trying to get my foot in the door in a couple of new situations…just for some change of pace.

And, also to try to acquire some new income streams. Since working a 9-5 is kinda out of the question for me, I have to be creative. Its a bit of a pain in the ass.\

But, recently having a few things going on simultaneously, trying to keep a steady workout routine, and taking care of my CF stuff I have a bit more on my plate than I usually do and I can feel it, and the pressure.

So, I guess that’s good problems to have…things can ALWAYS get worse…lol. As such I like to enjoy myself as much as I can when things are going “well.”

Anyway, hope everyone is having a good week. Its almost Wednesday so that’s cool…but, I appricaite you reading!

-p.s. I added a new body hack, and daily tip, the focus is working out, and nutrition based on health benefits…check them out!

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Dating with Cystic Fibrosis

As I have created this page, I get more people specifically looking for CF pages than anything else, it isn’t really something of a topic most people will stumble upon and read just to learn more, and that’s fine…I’ve accepted that.

However, I have had a few friends read this page, people who have either a friend or family member with CF or know someone with CF…it isn’t a large group, but there are those who do.

One common question I get as my CF becomes more prevalent in my life, and it shows itself more than it did when I was a younger man. How is it dating when you have Cystic Fibrosis?

So, here’s the answer I give them: Dating in general is a hard thing to do, especially in the times we live in where most people just want a quick hookup, as there are no less than 5 apps/sites dedicated specifically to that. But, having something like CF where if the person you are dating finds out and looks it up before you can explain what CF is like, they’ll probably be scared off. So, if you can make it to the first date, be honest…it is the best way to break that uncomfortable barrier. If the person you are dating comes and is curious explain what CF is, but don’t be graphic and morbid, ease them into life with Cystic Fibrosis. Allow them to see, you are just a person like anyone else, just so happens you have CF and have to take some pills, and do some breathing treatments. Here’s where it can get tricky…the first time that person sees you “sick” will tell you everything you need to know about dating them. If they are caring, concerned, and curious chances are they are a good person for you to keep dating, most people like that are genuinely good people. But, there are also the ones who will be fine, until they see you sick and it will scare, intimidate, freak them out, or maybe just not fit into their idea of what they want in life, which is fine, but totally on them. You control what you can and the right person will be the person you need them to be.

As far as everything else goes i.e. long-term relationship, living together, sex, marriage, etc. It is all do-able with the right care, planning, and most importantly the right person.